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Today’s marriage post is by my friend, Amanda Schreiber. I met Amanda last year at our kids’ homeschool co-op class. We helped teach the preschool class. When I met Amanda, her and her husband were going through major financial difficulty. As we talked, we realized we had a lot of similarities.\u00c2\u00a0 God spoke some promises to Amanda and I individually prior to our meeting. When we met, we both had been discouraged and afraid to look back at those promises out of fear of disappointment. I strongly believe God connected us together to remind us that His promises still stand. In February, I wrote about our meeting in my post “God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Promises Still Stand.<\/a>” A few months\u00c2\u00a0 later, God blessed both our husband’s with job opportunities, which were an answer to both our prayers.<\/p>\n

God is doing a wonderful work in Amanda’s family. I’m excited to have her contribute to this marriage series. I know you will be blessed by this message about the power of prayer in our marriages. This goes great with Kerry’s message<\/a> on Monday about how Jesus must increase, and we must decrease (John 3:30), to see God work wonders in our marriages.<\/p>\n

United Prayer<\/strong><\/p>\n

By Amanda Schreiber<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I’d like to thank Amanda for asking me to be a guest on her blog. \u00c2\u00a0When she approached me with this subject a while back and told me she was going to be starting a new marriage series, I knew exactly what I would write about, as it had recently become dear to my heart. \u00c2\u00a0Today I’d love to share with you the importance of united prayer in the life of a healthy marriage.<\/p>\n

Back in April, our family decided to embark upon a 40 Day Challenge. \u00c2\u00a0To learn more about this, you can check out my previous\u00c2\u00a0blog post<\/a>\u00c2\u00a0that lays out the details.\u00c2\u00a0The crux of our family challenge rested in the belief that God was able to do immeasurably more than we could ever ask or imagine<\/i> (Ephesians 3:20)…and we were expecting BIG things from Him…in our circumstances, and within the heart of our family. \u00c2\u00a0One of the most crucial components to this challenge involved my husband and I committing to pray together daily.<\/p>\n

In all honesty, it was something we didn’t do nearly enough. \u00c2\u00a0We often had the intention to do so, even talked about it, but as each day drew to a close we would find ourselves too tired and would end up putting it off till the next day. \u00c2\u00a0And then the next…And then the next. \u00c2\u00a0Too often we found ourselves only praying together when there was an urgent need. \u00c2\u00a0This is something we both longed to change. \u00c2\u00a0So as part of our family challenge, my husband and I made a commitment to get down on our knees together nightly to do this.<\/p>\n

During our nightly “kneetime” we prayed bold and audacious prayers over our family and our circumstances. \u00c2\u00a0This is where things really began to take root. \u00c2\u00a0It by far has been the most effective and rewarding aspect of our entire family challenge. \u00c2\u00a0I can’t begin to express the importance of this one, simple, yet so necessary, act.\u00c2\u00a0<\/i>\u00c2\u00a0I truly believe this is where the majority of God’s wonder-working was activated.<\/p>\n

So, back to our 40-day challenge, when my husband and I began to pray together each night, we took this very seriously. Aloud we declared our mountain of debt to move…we spoke God’s Word and His promises over us, claiming them for ourselves, thanking Him in advance for these blessings and promises before they even came to be.\u00c2\u00a0 Our belief and resolve was strengthened and we often could feel the presence and power of God hovering over us during this prayer time.\u00c2\u00a0 We prayed that God would “wonder-work” in and around us, believing Him to do so.\u00c2\u00a0 We took Him at His Word, that:<\/p>\n

“You do not receive because you do not ask…<\/i>” James 4:2 (so we asked!)<\/p>\n

“…believe and it will be given to you<\/i>.” Matthew 21:22 \u00c2\u00a0(so we believed)<\/p>\n

“Abide in Me and let My word abide in you, ask, and it will be given to you<\/i>.” John 15:7\u00c2\u00a0(so we abided and continued to ask and believe)<\/p>\n

“Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, then all these things will be added unto you.<\/i>” Matthew 6:33 (so we sought Him first and foremost)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

We hit our knees together nightly believing that God would come through and do the immeasurably more. \u00c2\u00a0Common daily prayer requests included things such as asking God to either bless my husband’s current business or open up doors of new opportunity. \u00c2\u00a0We thanked Him that He would open up the right ones and close the wrong ones. \u00c2\u00a0We prayed that God would increase our faith and give us a spirit of wisdom and revelation. \u00c2\u00a0That He would cause us to be fruitful and effective and influential to those around us. \u00c2\u00a0That He would bless our relationships, and fill us with a passion for Him and His word above anything else.\u00c2\u00a0We thanked God, that although our needs were great, He was ABLE and He was GREATER than all of our needs.<\/p>\n

Over the course of our 40 day challenge, \u00c2\u00a0He did just that! \u00c2\u00a0My husband is going on his third month in a new career. \u00c2\u00a0At first we struggled with fear at this prospective career move. \u00c2\u00a0But God has taught us a thing or two along the way. \u00c2\u00a0We’ve learned that sometimes we just have to trust Him, even if we don’t have all the answers and all of our ducks are not yet in a row. \u00c2\u00a0Sometimes we have to throw all logic out the window and just follow. \u00c2\u00a0To walk by faith and not by sight. \u00c2\u00a0Small steps of obedience, sometimes into the unknown. \u00c2\u00a0Trusting Him with our day and our future, even when we don’t have all the answers before us.<\/p>\n

We had asked God to open up the “right” door, and trusted that He would do so. \u00c2\u00a0So, when this new opportunity was presented to us, it seemed ridiculous not to look into it. \u00c2\u00a0We didn’t know exactly what the job description would be, or what the salary would be, but we had prayed for a door of opportunity. And when God opened a door, in trust, we walked through it. \u00c2\u00a0God filled us with a great sense of peace, and we thanked Him for doing immeasurably more. \u00c2\u00a0In my prayer journal, I wrote that my husband and I were on “cloud 9” because of this new career opportunity. \u00c2\u00a0What we didn’t know, is that God had even more “immeasurably more” to show us.<\/p>\n

A week and a half into working this new job, my husband and I still didn’t have a set salary offer. \u00c2\u00a0We knew God would take care of us, because He had been faithful all along, even in our season of lacking.\u00c2\u00a0 We knew that in time, my husband would have opportunity for growth within this new company. \u00c2\u00a0We were excited and content, and continued to thank God nightly for this new opportunity. We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve learned that when you grow to be content with what God has given you, it places you in a position to receive even more.<\/p>\n

After almost two weeks of work, my husband was given an official set salary. \u00c2\u00a0We were completely blown away when he was offered 30% more than his previous pay, considerably more than we ever imagined. \u00c2\u00a0We were speechless and dumbfounded, and simply could not believe that God had provided for us in this way. \u00c2\u00a0We are still pinching ourselves over this!\u00c2\u00a0 This was a true example of Him answering prayer and providing immeasurably more than we could have ever asked or imagined.<\/p>\n

Our long season of desert and leanness is drawing to a close. \u00c2\u00a0God has come through! \u00c2\u00a0God is moving mountains! \u00c2\u00a0God has provided a way out! \u00c2\u00a0God has done the immeasurably more! \u00c2\u00a0He is worthy of all of our praise!<\/p>\n

I believe that united prayer was the catalyst to these answered prayers. \u00c2\u00a0My husband and I had been praying about his work and our finances for three years. \u00c2\u00a0And for three long and arduous years, these prayers didn’t seem to be answered. \u00c2\u00a0In fact, our circumstances seemed to be spiraling downward. \u00c2\u00a0Although we individually prayed over these things during this season, we rarely prayed over these things together. \u00c2\u00a0What we found is that there is great power in united prayer. \u00c2\u00a0God’s Word says:<\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (Matthew 18:19\u00e2\u20ac\u201c20, NKJV)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It’s important to realize that the context of this verse is true for all who are obedient to Christ and are praying His will. \u00c2\u00a0I don’t believe that God desires for us to be in lacking. \u00c2\u00a0But I do believe that if we find ourselves in a season of lacking, there is purpose in it.\u00c2\u00a0 God doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t waste our pain or hardships.\u00c2\u00a0 He uses them.\u00c2\u00a0 He is able to work all things out for our good according to His mighty Romans 8:28 promise.<\/p>\n

Jesus came so that we could have life and have it to the full (John 10:10). \u00c2\u00a0Abundant life isn’t found in what we possess, but rather in having more of God and the things of Him in our life. \u00c2\u00a0In living a life of holy purpose. \u00c2\u00a0 Things of Christ are to be sought out over things of this world. \u00c2\u00a0He is far more concerned about our hearts than our circumstances.\u00c2\u00a0 He often works from the inside out.\u00c2\u00a0 Beginning with matters of the heart.\u00c2\u00a0 He is after a heart that truly seeks Him first. \u00c2\u00a0This should always be our chief prayer. \u00c2\u00a0To have more of Him. True joy and contentment can only be found when we are following hard after Him and fulfilling His purpose in our lives. \u00c2\u00a0In the great truth of Matthew, when we seek God and His righteousness first, then<\/i> all these other things will be added unto us (Matthew 6:33).<\/p>\n

I was curious to see when all of the changes and answers to prayer began to take place in our family challenge, so\u00c2\u00a0I took a look back in the journal I’d kept over those 40+ days. \u00c2\u00a0I found that it was on the evening of Day 10 that my husband was first presented with a new job opportunity. \u00c2\u00a0That very morning, I had written this prayer in my journal, (looking back at it now astonishes me!)<\/p>\n

“TODAY, I KNOW OUR GOD WILL COME THROUGH! Praise You LORD for future breakthroughs and victories in our family…More of You LORD, less of me.\u00c2\u00a0 Show me Your face, unleash Your supernatural, wonder-working power in and through and around me, my husband, and our family.\u00c2\u00a0 Guard our hearts from pride LORD as You begin to reveal Yourself and Your work and Your wonders in and around us.\u00c2\u00a0 LORD, we give You all the glory.\u00c2\u00a0 Keep us humble, always, before You. \u00c2\u00a0 Show us profound evidence of Your activity.\u00c2\u00a0 May we always come on bended knee before You, never stealing Your glory, but declaring with all of our lives that YOU ARE LORD!\u00c2\u00a0 Astonish us with Your wonderful works.\u00c2\u00a0 Interrupt our lives with Your power and presence.\u00c2\u00a0 Fulfill Your choice calling in our lives.\u00c2\u00a0 Thank You LORD, for Your harvest one hundredfold!”<\/i><\/p>\n

It gives me goosebumps (glorybumps) to read this!\u00c2\u00a0 Little did I know that God was in the works already. \u00c2\u00a0There is much power in prayer! \u00c2\u00a0For three years we had been praying the same prayer. \u00c2\u00a0But the answers to these prayers came only once we committed to praying these things together. \u00c2\u00a0God is eager to bless us, but deeply longs to have our hearts and our marriages completely surrendered to Him first.<\/p>\n

God has shown Himself to be so faithful.\u00c2\u00a0 It makes us cringe and wonder how we could have ever doubted Him along this journey. \u00c2\u00a0While we were individually yearning and waiting for God to move on our behalf,\u00c2\u00a0 He was patiently waiting and longing for us to act by surrendering together in prayer.<\/p>\n

This is our God story. \u00c2\u00a0I share a portion of it with you because it is full-blown evidence of the power of prayer in one’s life. \u00c2\u00a0I want to encourage you to stand united in prayer with your spouse. \u00c2\u00a0That even when you think you are past the point of redemption, whether it be finances, the health of your marriage, or any other stronghold or hardship that is weighing you down…you are not. \u00c2\u00a0When you are hopeless and feel that there doesn’t seem a way out…there is! \u00c2\u00a0It can be found through persistent prayer. \u00c2\u00a0He is our great Hope. \u00c2\u00a0With God, there is always a chance, and anything is possible. \u00c2\u00a0Let prayer be your mightiest tool.<\/p>\n

Again, God is able to redeem anything! \u00c2\u00a0Remember, when the Israelites were backed up between the Red Sea and Pharaoh’s army, it was God who parted the sea and gave them a way out. \u00c2\u00a0And He provided a way for us too. \u00c2\u00a0He will provide a way for you.\u00c2\u00a0 He is faithful to His children.\u00c2\u00a0 I’ve caught myself murmuring, and uttering, joyful, tearful thanks to Him over and over again. \u00c2\u00a0Often in disbelief. \u00c2\u00a0He rescued. \u00c2\u00a0He delivered. \u00c2\u00a0He redeemed. \u00c2\u00a0He moved that mountain. \u00c2\u00a0He did it!<\/p>\n

Sometimes His deliverance and redemption comes in ways we least expect. \u00c2\u00a0Sometimes we have to walk through desert to get there. \u00c2\u00a0But one thing is certain, He is able to lead us out! We must never underestimate the power of prayer in one’s life. Prayer changes things. \u00c2\u00a0It changes hearts and circumstances and lifts us up even closer to God’s mighty, helping, and powerful hand.<\/p>\n

I can’t begin to express the importance of a couple praying together. \u00c2\u00a0There are so many benefits and treasures to be found in this discipline. \u00c2\u00a0Not only did we see God move mountains and provide for us, it drew my husband and I closer together and strengthened our marriage in many ways. \u00c2\u00a0Prayer is the spilling out of heart to our LORD. \u00c2\u00a0Too often in a marriage, we neglect to build each other up, or just don’t do it often enough. \u00c2\u00a0We may think encouraging and uplifting thoughts about our spouse, but these thoughts don’t always leave our hearts and find their way to our lips. \u00c2\u00a0Or to our spouses ears.<\/p>\n

Surprisingly, my husband and I often found ourselves thanking and praising God for each other in our prayers. \u00c2\u00a0This became a time in which we could build each other up before our LORD. \u00c2\u00a0It made us each feel validated and appreciated for the work and role we were individually playing in our family. \u00c2\u00a0It created intimacy and united us as a team. \u00c2\u00a0This nightly prayer habit also gave us a closer look into each other’s hearts. \u00c2\u00a0It’s through prayer that we can express our pressing needs, fears, frustrations, and desires. \u00c2\u00a0These things can change daily. \u00c2\u00a0In the act of united prayer, we found ourselves sharing the deepest parts of our hearts with each other and with God. \u00c2\u00a0We then knew how to better pray for one another.\u00c2\u00a0 It grew us into a better knowledge, compassion, and understanding of one another and of our God. \u00c2\u00a0It gave us insight, challenged our faith, revealed our strengths and weaknesses, and provided a unity of heart that has rivaled no other.<\/p>\n

As believers, we want nothing more than to experience the presence of God. \u00c2\u00a0He is the supplier of all good things we could ever need or desire.\u00c2\u00a0 The act of prayer places us in a perfect position to bask in His presence to receive these things. \u00c2\u00a0And who other would we rather share this holy gift with than our very own spouse? \u00c2\u00a0On our wedding day, we entered a covenant with each other and with God. \u00c2\u00a0He wants to be the center of our marriages. \u00c2\u00a0He holds all things together (Colossians 1:17), including our marriages. \u00c2\u00a0A sure way to draw closer to one another and to keep God at the center of our marriages is to commit ourselves to the act of united prayer.<\/p>\n

As of July 1st, my husband and I are on day 86 of praying together nightly. The rewards of united prayer far exceeded our expectations. \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0It has become a habit and a privilege to come to Him together on bended knee. \u00c2\u00a0And it has proven to be a key component in keeping our marriage thriving and our hearts turned toward God. \u00c2\u00a0If this isn’t a discipline you and your spouse have been doing together regularly, I urge you to make united prayer a priority. \u00c2\u00a0Try it out, and with expectant faith, wait to see how God will do the immeasurably more within your hearts and your lives.<\/p>\n

“The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.”<\/i><\/p>\n

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\u00c2\u00a0<\/i>Pray onward. \u00c2\u00a0He is faithful, and He is able!<\/p>\n

Thank you LORD, for the gift of marriage and the gift of prayer.\u00c2\u00a0 That through Your son, Jesus, we are able to approach You with confidence.\u00c2\u00a0 That You hear us and don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t waste any of our pain and suffering.\u00c2\u00a0 Thank You that there is always purpose behind Your plan.\u00c2\u00a0 Your ways are higher than our own.\u00c2\u00a0 Help us not to lean unto our own understanding, but to trust You with every area of our lives, including our marriages.\u00c2\u00a0 Help us to let go of any areas we are not fully surrendering to You.\u00c2\u00a0 Increase our faith.\u00c2\u00a0 We are thankful that You know what is best for us.\u00c2\u00a0 That You work all things together for our good.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 That You hold all things together. Protect our marriages, unite us, and draw us closer to You and a deeper knowledge of You.\u00c2\u00a0 We long to bring You glory.\u00c2\u00a0 You are faithful and deserving of all of our praise.\u00c2\u00a0 In Jesus\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 most precious and holy name.\u00c2\u00a0 Amen<\/i><\/p>\n

*Thanks, Amanda, for this great prayer to pray with our spouses! You can read more inspiring posts by Amanda on her blog I’m Still CLAY.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00c2\u00a0**Don’t forget<\/strong> to leave Amanda a comment below to be entered to win 1 of 2 $50 Brinker gift card (can be used at Chili\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s, On the Border, Macaroni Grill, or Maggiano\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s) and a signed copy of my book \u00e2\u20ac\u0153You Can Have a Happy Family \u00e2\u20ac\u201c Steps to Enjoying Your Marriage and Children.<\/a>\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Today is the last day to enter!<\/strong> I’ll be announcing the first winner on my wedding anniversary tomorrow (7\/20), and the second winner on my husband’s and my dating anniversary on Sunday (7\/21).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  Today’s marriage post is by my friend, Amanda Schreiber. I met Amanda last year at our kids’ homeschool co-op class. We helped teach the preschool class. When I met Amanda, her and her husband were going through major financial difficulty. As we talked, we realized we had a lot of similarities.\u00c2\u00a0 God spoke some promises to Amanda and I individually prior to our meeting. When we met, we both had been discouraged and afraid to look back at those promises out of fear of disappointment. I strongly believe God connected us together to remind us that His promises still stand. In February, I wrote about our meeting in my post “God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Promises Still Stand.” A few months\u00c2\u00a0 later, God blessed both our husband’s with job opportunities, which were an answer to both our prayers. God is doing a wonderful work in Amanda’s family. I’m excited to have her contribute to this marriage series. I know you will be blessed by this message about the power of prayer in our marriages. This goes great with Kerry’s message on Monday about how Jesus must increase, and we must decrease (John 3:30), to see God work wonders in our marriages. United Prayer By Amanda Schreiber     I’d like to thank Amanda for asking me to be a guest on her blog. \u00c2\u00a0When she approached me with this subject a while back and told me she was going to be starting a new marriage series, I knew exactly what I would write Continue Reading →<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18,12,210],"tags":[234,238,20,36,212,21,28,215,402,237,218,139,213],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=604"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sharingtruths.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}